Why Do We Fear? The Unknown

 

Several years ago, my daughter, then a Junior in high school, took a job at a local fast-food restaurant.  She was looking for a bit of independence and some extra spending money.  True to her nature, she invested herself into that job.  She learned quick, worked hard and rarely ever missed a scheduled shift.  Over the next 4 years, Emily received several promotions and minor pay increases.  But the frustrations with both management and fellow employees became a nagging problem.  Those frustrations along with the heavy workload did not match the minimal amount of pay she received.  On several occasions, I encouraged her to consider leaving that job for something more lucrative as server at a higher end restaurant, but she refused choosing instead to “put up with” her situation in fast food.

Finally, one day a co-worker and close friend left the fast-food restaurant to take a job as a server at another establishment.  This was the catalyst that led Emily to finally make the move.  She applied her work ethic to the new job and learned quickly.  She was excited to be compensated in relation to her work efforts.  Emily worked her way through college with that job, and later saved enough money to move from our home in Indiana to her own apartment in Fort Walton Beach, Florida.  She has made a comfortable life for herself, and I’m convinced that her willingness to take some risks in life will lead her to a place of deep faith in Christ serving others as He calls.

Our daughter’s life has unfolded as it has because she learned to overcome her fear of the unknown.  When we do not know what to expect, or what might happen if we take a certain road, fear will take root.  And if we allow that to happen, we jeopardize the life that God wants us to live.  We will fail to run on all cylinders.  Staying in a known “comfort zone” can lead us to become a slave to fear of the unknown.

As Christians, we overcome these fears through trust in God.  In Paul’s letter to the Philippians, he writes, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.  And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:6-7).  At some point in time, Emily had to put her faith forward and take the leap out of her comfort zone.  She needed to get past that anxiety and trust that God would lead her in the right direction. That leap led to great things and a much-needed boost in her confidence level.

 

 

 

Christian rock artist, Zach Williams wrote the single, “Fear Is a Liar”.  The chorus is a poignant reminder that we should put our faith and trust in God, and not the world:

“Fear, he is a liar

He will take your breath

Stop you in your steps

Fear he is a liar

He will rob your rest

Steel your happiness

Cast you fear in the fire

‘Cause fear he is a liar.”

 

Are the “what ifs” and the I don’t knows” stopping you from fulfilling God’s divine call in your life?  Has the fear of what we cannot see caused us to hide in our “safe places”.  Our reluctance to act, nestled warm and safe in that comfort zone may not only adversely affect our lives, but also the lives of those that Christ calls us to serve.  Don’t allow fear to rule in your life.  Listen, and be led by Christ.